The Amazing News of New Birth (3:3–8)
3 Jesus replied, “Truly I tell you, unless someone is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” 4 “How can anyone be born when he is old?” Nicodemus asked him. “Can he enter his mother’s womb a second time and be born?”
5 Jesus answered, “Truly I
tell you, unless someone is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the
kingdom of God. 6 Whatever
is born of the flesh is flesh, and whatever is born of the Spirit is spirit. 7 Do not be amazed that I
told you that you must be born again. 8 The wind blows where it
pleases, and you hear its sound, but you don’t know where it comes from or
where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”
The Impossibility of Starting Over
How can I become a new person? That’s evidently the
question millions of people are asking, since marketing tells us that so many
products and services have the ability to make a new man or a new woman out of
us. We all want a make-over, or a do-over. We want another chance to get it
right. It would be nice sometimes just to hit RESET or to REBOOT. Sometimes we
think a change of circumstances or location will fix us, but it never does,
because we’re still there. One evening at a restaurant Gigi told me
about a song she really liked. She played it for me and I liked it too. I even
made part of it her ringtone when she calls me. It’s a Lynyrd Skynyrd song
called “Free Bird.” Here are some of the lyrics.
Things just couldn’t be the same
Cause I’m as free as a bird now
And this bird you’ll never change
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
And this bird you cannot change
And this bird you cannot change
Lord knows, I can’t change
Lord help me, I can’t change
Lord, I can’t change
Is the songwriter right?
When I was about 19 and in college, I was just beginning
to grow in Christ. I bought a notebook at the college store and started
recording what I was learning and what I was thinking about. Being a wannabe
poet, I tried to express my longings in a poem.
Dear God, forgive this feeble species
for adulterating our only source of life—
for fragmenting Christ into a million different pieces,
and then changing each to suit ourselves.
If only we could start again—
erase all that we have done and begin anew
to see the essence of life as you have shown it,
and carry the picture of Christ with us through all.
But how can the mind of man lose what it has taught itself
and start again to know of Christ?
Even if we could start again, the second time around might be
even worse. So starting over can be scary. It can also be discouraging.
No one likes to have to go back to the start in a game, especially if you’re
close to the finish line. It can even be humiliating. In the movie Regarding
Henry, Harrison Ford plays an unscrupulous, ruthless lawyer, whose wife
and daughter hate him. Then he gets shot by a robber and suffers brain damage
and memory loss. He doesn’t recognize anyone and has to relearn to talk, walk,
eat, read, and write. But he learns all those things and to everyone’s surprise
becomes a kind, gentle, loving man. I can testify as well that starting over
can be painful and humiliating. So can Moses, who had to start over. So can the
apostle Paul. In John 3, Jesus meets a man who needs to start over, but who is
either unable or unwilling to recognize it. After all, he is “a man from the
Pharisees, . . . a ruler of the Jews,” a prominent “teacher of Israel” (lit.
“the teacher of Israel”) named Nicodemus.
Nicodemus began his conversation with Jesus by stating
what “we know.” I went to seminary full of questions. I think I irritated my
fellow students in class sometimes by asking so many questions. Many of the
students had been to Christian colleges and knew many things I had not been
exposed to in my studies in anthropology in a secular university. I think many
of the professors spoke more to them than to me and assumed knowledge that I
didn’t have. I may also have been a bit skeptical and wanted to make sure the
professors had good reasons for the things they were saying. Other students
asked questions too, of course. I often thought their questions were intended
more to show off what they knew than to gain new knowledge and understanding. Nicodemus
may have been like one of these. He was a Jewish teacher and leader and wanted
to begin by making sure Jesus knew he wasn’t ignorant or stupid. He and his
buddies knew some things. Jesus wasn’t talking to a religious novice.
After making this point, perhaps Nicodemus meant to continue with a question
about the finer points of the kingdom of God. But he never got there. Jesus
knew what was on his heart and “replied” to the unstated question. He wasn’t
impressed with what Nicodemus knew.
What Jesus said was surely meant to baffle Nicodemus and
make him aware of what he didn’t know. Verse 7 tells us Nicodemus was
“amazed” by what Jesus told him. In v. 8 Jesus even uses an illustration of the
“wind” (the same word meaning “spirit”), and says to Nicodemus, “you don’t
know where it comes from or where it is going.” Jesus is calling his
attention to the vastness of Nicodemus’s ignorance. When Nicodemus confirms his
ignorance with a question in v. 9, Jesus even humiliatingly asks, “Are you a
teacher of Israel and don’t know these things?” In other words, “Is it
possible that you aren’t really as smart as you thought you were?” When I was a
teenager I ran across this ancient proverb:
He who knows not, and knows not that he knows not, is a fool, shun him.
He who knows not, and knows that he knows not, is a student, teach him.
He who knows, and knows not that he knows, is asleep, awaken him.
He who knows, and knows that he knows, is wise, follow him.
Jesus is clearly the wise man. But when Nicodemus came to
Jesus, he seems to have been a fool. Fortunately for him and for us, though,
Jesus did not shun him.
The repetition of several terms in these verses helps us
identify what we should pay special attention to. We’ve already noticed the
word “know,” which occurs three times. Another such word that occurs six times
in vv. 2–9 is easily overlooked. The Greek word is dunamai (related to
English “dynamite”), meaning “to be able/possible.” Its importance is masked in
English by having to translate it with such words as “could,” “cannot,” and
“can.” Nicodemus uses it first when he informs Jesus of what he knows: No one is
able to perform such signs unless he is God’s messenger. Jesus does not
disagree, but he wants to redirect Nicodemus’s attention. He picks up
Nicodemus’s word and says, in effect, “You think it’s impossible to do
such things without being sent by God? I’ll tell you something even more impossible.
It’s impossible for anyone to even see God’s kingdom without
being born again (or “from above”). Later Jesus talks about entering the
kingdom. Perhaps he is alluding here to Moses, who at first was allowed only to
see the promised land (Deut 34:1–4).
But Nicodemus misses Jesus’s point about seeing God’s
kingdom and focuses on the impossibility of being born again because
he thinks it involves the impossibility of reentering his mother’s womb
and then coming out again. Jesus, he thinks, is talking nonsense. The
word translated “again” usually means “from above,” as in 3:31 (“The one who
comes from above [Jesus] is above all. The one who is from the earth is earthly
and speaks in earthly terms”) and 19:11 (where Jesus tells Pilate, “You would
have no authority over me at all . . . if it hadn’t been given you from above”).
But Nicodemus takes it according to its alternate meaning of “again,” which
fits the context here too but causes Nicodemus to misunderstand. Jesus tries
again to focus Nicodemus’s attention on the kingdom of God by pointing out the impossibility
of entering it without being “born of water and the Spirit.” This phrase should
cause Nicodemus to realize he’s talking about something spiritual, not
physical. But it doesn’t help. A birth brought about by the Spirit seems to
Nicodemus to be just as impossible. He responds in v. 9 (lit.), “How is
it possible for these things to occur?” He is not only baffled but
incredulous. Part of Nicodemus’s difficulty may have been the assumption of
most Jews that God’s kingdom was something coming in the future and, more
important, was something faithful Jews already had a ticket for since Abraham
was their father (see John 8:33–40).
Another interesting repetition that’s easily missed is the
word “unless,” which occurs three times (lit. “if not”). Some things are
impossible unless something else is true. That is, there is one and
only one thing that can make the otherwise impossible possible. It’s absolutely
essential, the sine qua non, a Latin phrase meaning “without which
nothing.” Life is impossible, for example, unless oxygen is present.
Even water requires oxygen. It’s also impossible to play ball unless we
have a ball. It’s the sine qua non of ball playing. It’s also
impossible to enter a foreign country unless you have a valid
passport. Nicodemus is again the one to use this word first, and Jesus picks it
up for a reason. Doing the things Jesus did would be impossible unless
he is doing God’s work. That’s the one necessary thing, Nicodemus recognizes, the
sine qua non, that can make Jesus’s works possible. Jesus responds
that an even more amazing and essential thing that can make the impossible
possible is the new birth. It’s the only thing that can turn the impossibility
of seeing the kingdom of God into a possibility. Jesus underlines its
importance by saying it again in different words in v. 5. Being “born again”
means to be “born of water and the Spirit.” It’s the only thing that can make
entrance into God’s kingdom possible.
No one could miss the importance of the word “born” in vv.
3–8. It occurs eight times—more than any other word. In v. 6 Jesus explains
that birth is what determines whether someone is “flesh” or “spirit.” He is not
speaking in Pauline terms of our sinful nature, but rather of our being
strictly human and therefore powerless when it comes to spiritual realities. Being
“spirit” is absolutely essential to entering God’s kingdom. So how does one
become spirit? This is another recurring word in these verses. It’s
the Greek word pneuma. It occurs five times here, although with three
different meanings. In v. 6 it describes the spiritual nature of someone who is
able to enter God’s kingdom: we must be “spirit.” It can also refer to “wind,”
as Jesus uses it in v. 8 for what “blows where it pleases.” It’s what Nicodemus
often hears but has no ability to understand. But the first and most important
appearance of pneuma is in v. 5, when Jesus says one must be “born . .
. of the Spirit.” Jesus uses the phrase again in vv. 6 and 8. In these verses
it refers to the One we consider the third Person of the Godhead or Trinity,
the Holy Spirit.
A repeated phrase in these verses helps us understand how
important the Spirit is. This phrase is found on the lips of Jesus in John’s
Gospel 25 times. The KJV rendered it literally if oddly (to modern ears): “Verily,
verily, I say unto thee.” I like “Most assuredly, I tell you.” Its purpose is
to mark especially important things Jesus has to say. The first time Jesus uses
it is in 1:51 introducing his promise that the disciples would see heaven
opened. He uses it with Nicodemus in v. 3 when he declares how impossible it is
to see God’s kingdom without the new birth. Then he uses it again in
v. 5 when he explains that it’s impossible to enter God’s kingdom without being
“born of water and the Spirit.” Only God’s Spirit can cause a spiritual birth
that can take a person who is nothing but flesh—earthbound humanity—and make
them “spirit,” that is, having a new, spiritual nature. Only people radically transformed
by God’s Spirit can enter God’s kingdom. The reason Jesus’s message to
Nicodemus is so important is that he has not yet experienced it. He thinks he
can approach the kingdom on the basis of what “we know.” He’s no more equipped
to enter the kingdom of God than a shrimp is to whistle, a caterpillar or a
robin’s egg is to fly, or a tadpole to hop, croak, and eat flies. Nicodemus is
nothing but flesh. That’s why he can’t even understand what Jesus is talking
about.
Jesus’s message to Nicodemus teaches us that the things we
often value so much because we think they make us special are nothing but useless
baggage and a crushing millstone on our spiritual journey (Phil 3:3–9). This
may include our pedigree or ancestry, what our forefathers may have been or
done, the clubs or other groups we may belong to, our education, our
experience, our “scars,” our accomplishments or honors, or the accomplishments
or honors won by our children or even friends (“the mayor is a personal friend
of mine”). All those things can be nothing but worthless hindrances to entering
an eternal relationship with God.
But if Nicodemus did come to experience rebirth by the
Holy Spirit, as he evidently did, not only was he granted entry into the
kingdom of God, but he was radically changed into a new man. Before he came to
know Jesus, if someone had asked him who he was, doubtless he would said
something like “I’m Nicodemus, a Pharisee and ruler of the Jews, a teacher of
Israel.” Afterward, his answer would have been quite different.